Now I am ready to tell you about myself, my family, and you will understand everything..
Everyday Matt would be violent. He would bite me and claw up my arms. I have the scars to prove it, although they faded a little because he’s a little better. But it was awful. Everyday he would be uncontrollable. It was always me he hit.
Once he had this thing about men with beards. He would scream and be awful. Once Matt, mom, and I went grocery shopping and Matt saw a guy with a beard. He got really mad. When mom was checking out, she had to hold him down on the floor because he could hurt someone.
Or how about the time when we had to move the knives because he took one out and threatened to stab my eyes out.
Or when my mom got a bloody lip because he threw his head back on her. She started crying and it really upset me when I heard her say, “What kid would do this to his mother?”.
The stress was unbearable.
I couldn’t have any friends over because they might have on a fragrance and he might react. So you could say that I never really had many friends over because he would hurt them or me. I couldn’t wear any hair spray or anything with a fragrance.
Other times he would hurt small kids.
We had to do different things. We had to get unfragranced soap, shampoo, deodorant, and laundry soap. We had to close the windows when there was an east wind because the auto exhaust would bother him.
He couldn’t leave the house. He had to eat special foods. We never had anyone over because Matt might hurt them.
He can’t read and when he was younger, he couldn’t talk. He would do weird things like grind his teeth and hit his head. He broke about 5 stereos, one of mine, one of mom’s, and the rest were his.
He couldn’t go swimming because of the chlorine. He would be wild for two or three days in a row. He threatened to run away.
Over time, I have forgotten the magnitude of the stories written by a younger me.
To be honest, something has been scratching at my mind since I stirred up my demons.
My last post was on locker rooms of all things..Talking about locker rooms seemed to bother me more than it should have..Memories swirl through my mind. My mom taking a too old Matt into the girls locker room? There weren’t options back then like there are now. A too old screaming autistic boy in the ladies locker room would have been memorable back then, but I don’t remember more than a flicker.
There are whispers quietly echoing through my mind, but I can’t make out the words.
I am nervous as I type.
Do I really want to remember?