What does the whole healed version of me look like?

•  Sleeps restfully without insomnia or nightmares.
•  Does not let the bad choices of others affect me!!!!!!!!
•  Energetic without anxiety.
•  Quieted inner critic.
•  Healthy, no more gut issues.
•  Does not excessively worry.
•  Relaxed, not always on alert for danger.
•  Peaceful. Serenity. Tranquility.
•  Wisdom to help self and others.
•  Joyful despite circumstances.
•  Able to feel and express feelings.
•  Sets boundaries.
•  Less black and white/all or nothing thinking.
•  Able to admit faults, tolerant of imperfection in self and others.
•  No longer tries to fix/control others.
•  Unconditional positive regard.
•  Works on relationships/trust issues.
•  Funloving.
•  Gratitude for what I have.
•  Be able to see the best in others.
•  Trusting, but not gullible.
•  Takes better care of myself.
•  No suicidal thoughts.
•  Able to depart from a routine without stressing out.
•  Able to enjoy accomplishments.
•  Not let the past dictate my future.
•  Not be triggered so easily by everyday things.
•  No delayed processing of feelings.
•  Work less, play more.
•  Decisiveness.
•  Saying ‘no’ more to things I don’t want and ‘yes’ more to what I want.
•  Not being afraid to speak my mind or stick up for myself.
•  Be honest.
•  Embrace both my strengths and weaknesses.
•  Appreciate everything I’ve been through and allow it to be an inspiration for the      healing of others.
•  Deeper meaningful relationships.
•  Being willing to listen even if I have to set aside my to-do list.
•  Be patient with myself during the healing process even if progress is slower than I’d like.
•  Get out of survival mode.
•  Let go of things not worth holding onto.

Well, I think this is a good start…..